When it comes to sex we tend to think about men about being quite simple creatures. The more of it they get the better. However, the story is a lot more complicated and a man’s view of sex isn’t nearly as straightforward as we think. Here are 9 things that you probably never knew about men and sex.
1. Your Sex Drive May be Higher Than His
If your man stops wanting sex the temptation is to think that he must be getting somewhere else. The truth is that the male sex drive goes up and down like it does for women. And some men just have a lower sex drive. Not being in the mood can be embarrassing for men but they’re less likely to be as direct in saying no as you may be. If you get the impression that your man isn’t in the mood then don’t force it. It could have embarrassing implications if he’s unable to perform and could lead to psychological problems. If you’ve noticed a decrease in his normal sex drive then help identify and and resolve the problem. Stress at the office and other life events can destroy a man’s sex drive.
2. Younger Men Suffer From Erection Problems Too
We tend to think it’s just guys over 40 that approach their doctors for those little blue pills. However, problems in younger men are extremely common. It’s not just physical problems that can erection problems. Psychological problems including performance anxiety can make achieving erections nigh impossible for your man. And these problems can be self fulfilling as, once it’s happened once, he’ll be terrified that it’s going to happen again. Be understanding if it happens and make sure that don’t make a big deal of it. Once he feels relaxed again things should return back to normal.
3. He Probably Cares More About Your Pleasure Than His
There is a HUGE myth than men just care about themselves in the bedroom. While there are exceptions to every rule most men actually care more about your pleasure in the bedroom than their own. If he’s not doing it right it’s probably because he doesn’t realise, not because he can’t be bothered.
4. Men Often Orgasm Without Any Physical “Evidence”
This does actually happen. It’s more common in men with prostate or bladder problems. But it can happen in men who are physically healthy too. The most common reasons is when it’s trying to prolong things. If he goes beyond the point of no return but tries to fight it off this can lead to a “semi-orgasm” which often produces no physical evidence – but he probably won’t be able to continue after.
5. Being Too Skinny Can Be A REAL Turn-off For Your Man
Men are visual creatures and your overall appearance and body shape can have a real impact on his physical feelings towards you. For evolutionary reasons men are drawn towards health and fertility. Back in the caveman days a skinny women was probably suffering from malnutrition. Don’t be embarrassed about your womanly curves and child bearing hips. Contrary to what current fashion trends would have us believe men find skinny women less attractive.
6. His Nipples Are As Sensitive As Yours
It’s absolutely true! His nipples are just as sensitive as yours but virtually no women realise this. And feel find stimulation of his nipples just as pleasurable as you do. He may be shy to ask so be proactive and give it try. He’ll love it!
7. He Has His Own G-Spot
Otherwise known as his prostate, applying pressure to this organ just underneath his bladder will bring him immense pleasures. But be careful not to apply too much force as it contains some very important nerves that could be damaged. There’s plenty of advice on the net about how to stimulate your mans prostate.
8. It’s Easier For Men to Get Erections With Someone They Love
We tend to think about sex being physical for men. However, this is far from the truth. There’s also a very important emotional side to sex for men and studies have shown it’s far easier for men to obtain erections if they are with someone that they love.
9. He Probably Doesn’t Care About Your Bed Hair And Morning Breath
Men’s testosterone levels and sex drives are at their highest first thing in the morning. The last thing on his mind will be what you’re hair looks like or what your breath smells. Enjoy these early morning encounters without feeling self conscious. He’s not worried about it so you shouldn’t be either.